Son, You Must Use Your Critical Thinking Skills

Originally posted on AMother'sHeartSongsUnsilenced:

Dear Son, You must use your critical thinking skills.  Think carefully about what is truly to your benefit.  Embrace all that is good, deep within you.  In looking at the options before you, think of how some of these options might actually be of benefit to somebody else.  Be cautious when there is money involved – it changes people.  Systems can be designed to perpetuate conflict and divisions.  What may look like a helper may be somebody who is a paid member of such a system.  Look deep inside you for your own truth – that is where you will find all of the answers you need.  Deep within you is your own truth and your own love.  Love, Mom

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Submitting Written Arguments

Originally posted on AMother'sHeartSongsUnsilenced:

We will be submitting written summations.  The judge gave the attorneys and myself the option to choose.  I requested submitting final arguments in writing.  The Child Representative laughed out loud at me.  This is nothing new.  At that moment I wondered if we were in a dignified court of law or grammar school.  I stated I did not think such a request to be amusing.  Apparently the judge didn’t think it was amusing either, as he granted my request that we make written Summations.

I look forward to another opportunity to tell the truth, and be heard.  It has been a very long road to finally being heard.  But when you finally get the chance to speak the truth, it is the most comforting feeling in the world.  I will continue to pray for justice to be served.

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I Had a Dream Instead of a Nightmare!

mother tLast nite I dreamt that all my kids were with me — even my daughter, the youngest, who has been completely alienated from me and one of her brothers by her dad. In this dream, I was providing something for them to eat before I had to go to community college (which I’ve been out of for decades..). I was also sharing my love for them and my desire for them to love each other and enjoy their time together.  There was some uncertainty in the air, but more than that was hope in my heart!do good anyway

Can ‘Good Enough’ Mothers Lose Custody of their Children to Violent and Abusive Men?

Can ‘Good Enough’ Mothers Lose Custody of their Children to Violent and Abusive Men?.

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Yes. Contact the Today Show about Parental Alienation for their “Shine The Light” series:  http://www.today.com/allday/shine-light-today-anchors-reach-out-those-need-2D11848388

Darren Hayes: ‘We are all Robin Williams’ / Attitude

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Robin Williams & Parental Alienation …

Originally posted on Protective Mothers' Alliance International:

This beautifully written post originally appeared on Attitude and was authored by the very talented artist Darren Hayes. Thank you Darren. We are re posting in memory of the late Robin Williams, and for all protective mothers struggling with situational depression due to the pain and injustice suffered. If you are feeling depressed, please tell a trusted someone, reach out and get help. One day your children will come back to you . They need a living, healthy mother to reunite with, and love.
R.I.P Robin Williams you are love by the world..

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The hardest, most debilitating and soul-devouring aspect of depression is the self-imposed choice to hide it away from the world.

In the place of the cold, utterly dark void that we feel inside, people who suffer from depression will use secret stores of energy they don’t have, energy that could be used to solve their problems or…

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An Open Letter to My Children’s Stepmother

Torn 2 Peaces:

What a generous parent. What a stepparent….

Originally posted on MyDivorcePain:

Dear Jill,
Although we have never spent any time together I believe that you and I COULD become friendly, if not friends.

First off; let me again express my gratitude to you for guiding my children into adulthood. I honestly believe that without your influence they would not have achieved so much. I can’t thank you enough for loving them. Sincere, heartfelt THANKS!

Now I need to address some issues that I feel we, yes, you and I TOGETHER, need to come to terms with.

The number one thing that Wanda told me you said about me that really hurt my feelings was, “anybody can spit out four kids”. I have serious issues with that statement because it is a falsehood number one; because the children are mine, they are NOT your flesh and blood. Yes, you were there for them the past 7 years or so, but that doesn’t…

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Part 2 Family Court Ineptness & Parent’s Contempt

This mom ran out of legal fund$ (which the legal system was completely ineffective in this extreme Parental Alienation case) and became concerned about her daughter being used to lie in court to gain her dad’s approval/rewards. Family Court proved to be futile with a judge who did not look at evidence and an unfit GAL even if this mom had not been concerned about how the system would create further damage and trauma.  This mom signed a custody agreement, but father to child did not adhere to anything.  The father, who obtained physical custody with the assistance of his latest wife, did not continue daughter’s counseling as ordered by court.  This ended without discussion, even though mother’s insurance and copay was paying for the vast majority of it.  Daughter had been severely depressed and liked the counselor she had begun seeing.  In addition, daughter expressed desire to frequently visit mother, but as soon as custody agreement was signed, which provided father child support money from mother, communication abruptly and significantly decreased, then stopped. No visitation was possible without communication. Father said daughter did not want to see mother. However, father had lied to courts, lied to mother, lied about mother, and has a history of triangulation.

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If you pray, won’t you join me…….

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Love this — let’s join together

Originally posted on survivorsjustice:

biopic3 It’s not a prayer for me, but rather our society as a whole. If you pray in any form please join in and pray with me now.

Dear Lord, help us now in our vision of peace that we may help those who are still forced to live in the pain from those who should protect and love them. Let the wounded heal so that they become strong, positive parents, to guide their children in your forever empowering light.

Thank you everyone…….

Hello Everyone,I enjoy so much receiving my weekly inspiration. Now I hope this post reaches out to many others. When I sit and think about what I would truly like to have others pray about, it doesn’t come down to praying for or about me, but rather our society as a whole and even more so my children. Four years ago I began a…

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“Get Up, Stand Up For Your Rights…” — Bob Marley

Torn 2 Peaces:

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Originally posted on From Torn 2 Pieces 2 Peace :

  1. I have a right to ask for what I want.

  2. I have a right to say no to requests I cannot meet.

  3. I have a right to respectfully express all my feelings.

  4. I have a right to change my mind.

  5. I have a right to make mistakes and I do not have to be perfect.

  6. I have a right to follow my own values and beliefs.

  7. I have the right to say no to anything if I feel I am not ready, if it is unsafe, or if it conflicts with my values.

  8. I have the right to determine my own priorities.

  9. I have the right NOT to be responsible for the actions, feelings, or behavior of others.

  10. I have the right to be angry at someone I love.

  11. I have the right to be myself.

  12. I have the right to express fear.emancipate mind

  13. I have the right to expect honesty from others.

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Violated Custody Orders: 1st in a series revealed

Here is an image of actual custody orders. Who they concern is not important (except to the target parent, who chooses to remain anonymous).

 

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What’s important to understand is the reality of Family Court: it does not protect the child’s best interest when even reasonable court orders are not enforced. Family Court should never put a child in the middle.  Custody decisions should be based on common sense, factual evidence, unbiased expert testimony, and have nothing to do with who has the most money for legal fees or who has business connections with professional decision makers and influencers. What is also important, as in every situation every where, is to keep in mind that there’s more than one side to the story. Like an oppressive ruler of a country, an alienating parent takes careful control of the information.

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This is an example of sharing what has previously been censored by the lies of an alienating parent, living in fear of the truth.  Who that parent is, is not the point.  This is the situation and story of many parents:

 

“X has violated/kept me out of any discussion w/ doctors and all [health-care] decision-making have been made by him alone.”