My (h)ex somehow manipulated the hospital into billing me for a procedure for my daughter he prevented me from having any decision in, despite the court orders that I, as the parent who shares custody, am supposed to be informed and a co-decision-maker. A bill and doctor’s visit that never should have been needed had he (he, the one who, through games & lies, was “awarded” physical custody of our daughter) ever supervised our daughter like any descent man, any descent, caring father would have been protective… but no, he’s allowed her to run wild since 13 — what my stepdad & a therapist termed “child endangerment”. My stepdad said child protective services should check into it. So did the police. I’ve called & provided CPS with evidence & witnesses more than a few times, but no action. And here this hospital ER should have reported suspected negligence as my ex did not get to the emergency room until an hour after she had been there (he lives and works just a few minutes away). My daughter’s friend said my ex threw my daughter’s jacket over at her face & said “you’re a mess” instead of hugging her and asking her how she was — as any descent parent would, but I was not even informed till after-the-fact. I received a cold email two days later demanding money. I was horrified to hear what happened to my daughter & that I did not even get to comfort her, speak to her, or have her get top care that I had access to where I live and where my health insurance coverage is (Johns Hopkins — THE BEST for what she needed after neglect of supervision). And she wound up in ER three times since for different issues. AGAIN, I was informed days after the fact with request for money above the health insurance I pay for. What father does not want his daughter to be comforted by her mother, but only wants money for the specific services and places he chooses even against court orders? He owns real estate businesses. He is 11 years older than me. He has more money than me – he just doesn’t report the earnings of his businesses, according to his former business partners. He also receives child support from me.
The hospital has failed to report suspicion of neglect and has failed to bill legally. The sociopath conducts every one’s actions, it seems — no wonder my daughter bows down to him — she sees other adults/institutions do it!! And I can’t get the courts to enforce my ex to do what is right and what my daughter, me, and our family deserves — our constitutional rights.
It is all I can do to sleep at night or concentrate at work. I WANT MY CHILD SAFE AND HEALTHY. I HOPE HE FOLLOWS THROUGH WITH HIS THREATS TO GET THE DA AFTER ME FOR MONEY SO THE DA WILL FINALLY LOOK INTO THE NEGLECT, ETC., SINCE THE DA HAS DONE NOTHING ABOUT THE UNDERAGE PORN, ETC., FOUND ON MY EX’S COMPUTER — THE EVIDENCE JUST DISAPPEARED WITHOUT THE LEGALLY REQUIRED PAPER TRAIL. THIS IS A NIGHTMARE. A SICK NIGHTMARE. WHERE IS MY CHILD’S VILLAGE? DOES IT EXIST IN THE U.S.? Would Child Protective Services respond if the DA and the hospital were involved? A mom doesn’t matter in my daughter’s village & neither does my child, it seems.